
A UNION OF LOVE
SHATIKA & JAMAR
WELCOME TO OUR DAY
We’re excited to share this special day with you — your love, support, and presence mean the world to us. Whether you're joining us in person or celebrating from afar, we’re so grateful to have you as part of our journey. We can’t wait to create unforgettable memories together as we begin this next chapter of our lives.
FAQs
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Unless your RSVP specifically includes a plus one option, unfortunately, we’re unable to accommodate additional guests. Seats are reserved only for the individuals listed under your name on the RSVP or invitation.
This applies to all persons married, engaged, dating, or single. There will be no plus ones granted.
This is an INVITE ONLY event.
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Due to mailing delays, we have extended the RSVP Deadline to June 10th. All rsvp responses are required to be submitted by then.
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If you miss the RSVP deadline of June 10th or forget to RSVP we will not be able to accommodate you, as final counts and seating arrangements will already be confirmed.
If you decide not to attend, still respond and decline the invitation as we will need to confirm our guest count.
This is a per-person event, and your attentiveness and timely response helps us plan thoughtfully and avoid unnecessary costs.
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Please update your response on this wedding website by selecting to RSVP, entering your name, and then decline the rsvp.
If it is within the week of the wedding or the day of, please reachout to the bride & groom immediately.
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This is a formal Black-Tie event, and all guests are required to wear ALL BLACK - no exceptions.
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A black tie event is a formal occasion that requires attendees to wear elegant evening attire. Here's what it typically means:
For Men:
Tuxedo (black)
White formal dress shirt
Black bow tie
Black formal shoes
For Women:
Floor-length evening gown
A formal cocktail dress (No Club-like or Scandalous Dresses)
Heels or dressy flats
Elegant accessories
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No. We are kindly accepting monetary gifts only—please no gift cards, as they are not as easily usable.
Feel free to contribute to our newlywed fund or bring a wedding card with cash. Thank you for your love and support!
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Go to the gifts page to contribute or click here pierceinlove.com/gifts
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Please be on time to the venue. We will be starting the event promptly at 6pm.
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The wedding will conclude at midnight. If you have work early the next morning, we kindly recommend taking the following day off to rest and fully enjoy the celebration.
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The entire wedding—including the ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception—will take place at The Tides Estate in North Haledon, NJ.
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We recommend using Google Maps, Apple Maps (iPhone), or Waze to find the best route from your home to the venue.
Please also refer to the directions page on our website at pierceinlove.com/directions for more information. -
Unfortunately, no. This will be an adults-only wedding, and we’re unable to accommodate children. Guests must be 21 or older, as the event will include an open bar.
RSVP REPLY
All guest must RSVP in order to reserve a seat, thank you.